Food Addiction
Addiction is a disease of disaster. Food, eating, alcohol, “street drugs,” gambling, shopping, internet, video gaming, cigarettes, sex, pornography… all of these and more can be addictive.
Addiction is, in my mind, a “disease of disaster.” People rarely seem to seek treatment for an addiction unless there has been a disaster: someone lost a job, got a DUI, had a spouse threaten to leave if they didn’t get help, had a spouse actually leave – and take the kids, got picked up for indecent exposure or solicitation, were put in jail for public intoxication, or things much worse involving life and death. It’s when a disaster of some sort happens that a person may seek help for an addiction. Because who wants to admit they have an addiction? After all, we see the “worst of the worst” cases on the so-called reality shows. The people on those programs are worse than we are (they drink more, spend more, gamble more, snort more, sleep with more people, work more hours, etc.) … so, if THEY’RE an addict, surely you’re not!
Lots and lots of people are functional addicts. They go to work every day, take the kids to daycare and remember to pick them up. They perform surgeries, represent you in court, deliver your mail, fix your plumbing and teach your children. Functional addicts need help, too, as do their families. Addiction is a family disease that requires family recovery.
Here’s a very non-therapeutic definition of addiction:
If you know something is causing a problem in your life: relationship issues (with spouse, kids, parents, etc.), work problems, health problems, legal problems, AND you want to stop the problematic substance/behavior (alcohol, cocaine, food – usually sugar and/or other carbs — shopping, online shopping or gaming or social networking, exercise, online pornography or other sexually-related behaviors, gambling, etc.) AND you crave it (think about it or physiologically crave it)… BUT YOU CANNOT STOP, it’s most likely an addiction.
IF SOMETHING IS CAUSING PROBLEMS IN YOUR LIFE, IT’S A PROBLEM!
The good news is, there is HOPE and there is HELP!
Contact me and let’s talk about your situation.
Remember, there’s no shame in having a problem. There’s shame in doing nothing about it.
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM
Food Addiction - Are you a food addict? Listen to the clinical description of food addiction ... this is a place to start on our road to Recovery!
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Self Esteem
June 27, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Self Sabotage
June 20, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Protection Plan, Putting It All Together
June 13, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Protection Plan 4 of 4
June 6, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Protection Plan 3 of 4
May 30, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Kelley Gunter
May 23, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Yvonne Burns McCarthy
May 16, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Protection Plan 2 of 4
May 9, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Protection Plan 1 of 4
May 2, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Emotional Eating and Awareness
April 25, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Feelings
April 11, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Staying on Track
March 21, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Your Addiction Affects Your Family
March 14, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Boundaries with Family
March 7, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Necessary Endings
February 21, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Love and Food Addiction
February 14, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Powerlessness
February 7, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Control Part 2
January 31, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Control and Manipulation
January 24, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Motivation
January 10, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM — Many Roads to Rome
January 3, 2018
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #16 — RESENTMENTS
October 11, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #13 — How Our Addictions Affect Others
August 30, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #12 — I Can't But It Can Be Done
August 23, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #11 — Ready, Willing , Able?
August 16, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #10 — WHY ME? Part 2
August 2, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #9 — WHY ME?
July 26, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #8 — 4 ACES and Healing Basics
July 19, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #7 — The 4 ACES for Healing
July 12, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR and FIRM #6 — Skill Power
July 5, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR & FIRM #5
June 28, 2017
Food Addiction: FAIR & FIRM #4
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Food Addiction: FAIR & FIRM #3
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Food Addiction: FAIR & FIRM #2
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Food Addiction: FAIR & FIRM #1
May 31, 2017